Fool yourself as Motivation

How many times have you fooled yourself?
Quite many times, right. So why not fool yourself for doing good things? 

That is a way to motivate yourself actually. 
How about getting out of a comfort zone that doesn’t really serve you anyway, on the contrary perhaps. 

That is a very common ”Self Made Trap” – an imagined safe zone.
It’s a Challenge to get out of your traps. It requires courage and it gives you self confidence, you will cultivate the skill along the way once you start.

Transform and develop into what you want to accomplish in life, your imagination is the limit. 

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Lift other people up

We can give self confidence to others but they have to do the work to keep it 🌺

We give this gift by believing in others and to support them. 

This is an important obligation as a Leader even privately but also very important if you run projects, a business and are responsible for employees. 

Lift people up and people will prosper within your care.

Accept no and do No downplaying within your territory – that ought to be outdated long time ago.

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7 things How to get in charge of your feelings

⭐ snooze people for 30 days who contribute with stress & anxiety in your life

⭐ after the 30 days decide if they are worthy of another chance to be in your life – if not block them out of your life online & IRL – don’t tell why if it only will take more energy from you – if they ask why say you need a break and have other things to put down your energy on and walk away or log out and unfriend them IRL too – don’t take calls or DM’s either – don’t get into discussions

⭐ make sure to cultivate the habit of sleeping at least 7 hours each night, preferably 8

⭐ eat healthier food, more fruits and vegetables, less sugar and unhealthy fat, drink more water and herbal tea

⭐ journal your feelings if you feel the urge to act on affect – write off those feelings into your journal – cry if you need to cry it will help you

⭐ read your journaling in the evening and identify where there is repetition of thoughts or opinions and mark them as main topics – pick three of them as main topics to dig deeper into to get to the root of these topics that rule your world and solve it or manage it strategically

⭐ in the morning read something uplifting – and create words of affirmation to yourself – words you say to yourself that you appreciate about yourself – who you are and who you want to be & be that person from now on

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How & When do you Reward yourself?

We love Chocolate and it actually makes us happy – both literally and emotionally. Chocolate contains Dopamine – our brain’s reward and pleasure centers. Press the link below and check out the amazing high quality chocolate we really recommend. 

It is an important question How & When you Reward yourself. It is crucial when it comes to reaching goals in life & is closely connected to Motivation. If you just give yourself rewards or use them as comfort you will lose the whole point of Motivation. You have to set boundaries with yourself to learn the power of Motivation. When you reach goals along the way, both short term and long term goals it is important to celebrate and reward yourself and anyone involved and your close ones too. It will give much joy and you will see that it was worth the struggle.

If you just get gifts now and then for no effort what so ever you will actually get really spoiled and not so grateful either. Set up reasonable rewards for reasonable input of effort and also make boundaries and rules round this and it will work really good as Motivation for you. Chocolate also contains Dopamine our brain’s reward and pleasure system. We are much about health and Chocolate is even included into our diet we have into our Health coaching options – link in menu.

Press the picture and reward yourself with some chocolate and set up some goals to go reach to get the chocolate!

Self Confidence vs Humility

Being humble is a personality trait and being Humble means to lower one self in comparison with others. What does this really mean? 

Humility is how we interact with others

Respect and consideration for other people is included in our behavior towards other people. To be considerate as a person is included in being a humble person. We take into consideration other peoples feelings when we make decisions. It does not mean that we ask other people for approval or have other people dictate to us what to do. It means that we cultivate values and take these values into consideration as a variable into our decision making process. We reflect upon how our decisions will affect other people. This is also why we don’t talk bad or gossip because we don’t want to harm another persons feelings or reputation. To show consideration for other peoples feelings is to show respect, and to show respect will give you respect. 

A humble person does not belittle other people as if they are unimportant. Attention is included in how we treat other people. Our body language is said to be about 85% of our communication and immediately exposes our values towards other people. The silent treatment is a sanction to undesired behavior from someone, you don’t say anything but the message usually goes through. Everyones behavior effect other people and when we realize this we can get better results in every area of our lives. 

Not to gossip is also a question of self preservation since it backfires the one who talk about other people as not trustworthy. This gets us into the other perspective, how a person view him or herself because this has a vital part of being a humble person

We know of the expression, that we have to love ourselves to be able to love someone else. Self love is to take care of one self, healthy habits in every aspect of our lives, science say that we become like the 5 closest people we associate with. We are influenced by what we put down our time on. This is pure logic. We also know that we get influenced by toxic relationships and have to get out of such relationships to stay healthy and to actually keep our self love in good shape. 

Self esteem is included in self love and is a subconscious feeling about ourselves. How we treat ourselves, what we say to ourselves and how we guard ourselves from outer danger. Self preservation is a foundation for our self esteem. It is also about setting boundaries what we accept as accepted behavior towards us. Unhealthy codependency is common within relationships with different addictions. We need to safe guard ourselves when we are taken advantage of or being ”belittled” .  

We have our pre-recorded product about self esteem through the menu to create habits that will build and safe guard your self esteem. Our mail focus is to help you to develop good habits to build a strong self esteem and a balanced self confidence. 

Self Confidence is a topic that we dig really deep into our Facebook group product – I can do it – Mindset masterclass – link through the menu. 

Self Confidence means that we trust that we will figure things out a long the way, we don’t know everything but have the possibility to learn a long the way. It is also a kind of curiosity towards new insights. We trust the process of learning and have an open and learning mindset. 

Self confidence is how we view ourselves and not in comparison with others. Low self confidence can be that we don’t think we have what it takes but others may have it. This is not to be confused with being a humble person. A humble person knows that other people also have possibilities to learn and reach goals in life as he or she has and does not view it as a competition between other people. A humble person is happy for other peoples success and does not get envious or show hatred towards someone else because of their success. A humble person does not feel more important or proud of being better than other people. On the contrary a humble person teach or share insights with other people what they know and is not envious about knowledge or stingy about it. 

Self confidence is about believing in one selfs abilities to reach goals in life and that we have what it takes to get there so to speak. Of course we need support from others and we need to adapt to changed circumstances and we know we can figure things out along the way. 

Self confidence is an attitude towards ourselves and to express humility is an attitude of grace towards other people.

Comfort zone have never gotten anyone anywhere

Habits will impact your Mindset – so choose them wisely 
We help you to Customize Good habits and to kick out the Bad habits. 
Bad habits is habits that interfere with your goals. 

We have so much within us that with the right motivation will help you
to get rid of different blocks you have and to see your potential and
work towards it daily. 

We have the structure for it. 

Comfort zone have never gotten anyone anywhere. 
A comfort zone is often an imagined comfort zone.
We will guide you out of it. 

Customize Good habits in our different Facebook Groups 
or in our pre-recorded product – How to get a winner’s Mindset – so you don’t give up

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Get your feet into your Business Cash Flow

– Don’t hesitate with or limit private projects just because you don’t know how to run a Business – you will grow into it – we will guide you both in our Facebook groups & in our pre-recorded CEO/Managing Director Education

– It’s important to get your feet into the cash flow at once within your Business – you will grow with it and won’t panic when it adds up to millions

– Our Business Structure makes room for more of your Ideas & Projects – we guide you how to

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Our Method

Low on battery?
Get that fixed In depth in the – Health, Weight & Beauty comes with Health – Facebook Group

Low Self Esteem?
Then we have the pre-recorded product – How to get a Winner’s Mindset – so you don’t give up – NOT a Facebook Group

Feeling bored?
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* Realize Your Ideas (free of Charge)
* I can do it – Mindset Masterclass
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Our Method – join the clubs
* We help you to say no to Distractions
* Kick out Bad Habits
* Create Good Habits
* Aquire & Safe Guard your Self Confidence
* Safe Guard your Self Esteem
* Get in Charge
* Achieve your Goals & put more ideas into Reality
* Get some structure

In the Health, Weight & Beauty comes with Health group we will help you to:
* Customize healthy habits
* Navigate through your feelings more in depth

I can do it! – Mindset Masterclass
* Aquire & Safe Guard Self Confidence
* Build your personal Brand
* & More about Mindset

Realize your Ideas – free of charge – Facebook Group

In our pre-recorded product – How to get a Winner’s Mindset – so you don’t give up – We go through more in depth about self esteem and setting up boundaries – this is not a Facebook Group product

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120 Days at your Disposal

Time is at our disposal to invest into what we want. With a little bit of imagination and self confidence we realize that we have room for making decisions each day towards dreams and goals in life. We want to encourage you to take this steps. It will bring much joy! So what is your Ambitions for this summer?

Turn some dreams or plans into projects or a Business. Start or Scale it up if you already are up and running so to speak. We will encourage and inspire you in our Facebook Groups or in 1:1 IRL online coaching sessions if you prefer that. Step into the shoes needed to reach your goals this summer! Links right here:

Courageous Leadership

You need to be in good shape, both mentally and physically to manage high pressure because today you will be questioned more than ever. It starts with Self Leadership to cultivate a modern Leadership style because your personality is so closely tide to your Leadership style. The topic of Self Leadership will help you in your personal life and also as a Leader within Projects or Business.

It’s really an uncertain and challenging market and that will require courageous Leadership. Who’s shoes do you need to step into when it gets tough? As a Leader you have to step into your own shoes and deliver solutions or reliefs. We believe that it will be courageous to show compassion and not only see to numbers and profit as if humans is not into the equation. Ethics is important. You also need some knowledge about Leadership history so you don’t repeat mistakes that we’ve ought to have learn from history. We believe that you need to always develop your Leadership style and be updated and well informed. To be continued.

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