Emotional Intelligence

Emotional intelligence (otherwise known as emotional quotient or EQ) is the ability to understand, use, and manage your own emotions in positive ways to relieve stress, communicate effectively, empathize with others, overcome challenges and defuse conflict. 

Emotional intelligence starts with getting to know yourself, what triggers you and how you react to things that happens and more importantly how you manage yourself. It is about Self Leadership. Your self esteem plays a key role here how you choose to respond in challenging situations and how you react and view problems in life. 

How we interact with other people is involved in how we manage our own feelings. We train our children how to manage challenges from early on before they learn to walk actually. We also teach children empathy when we make sure that children is not mean to animals or other children. We help our children to solve conflicts instead of doing it all for them, this way we prepare and train our children for adulthood. We also help a child to stop making scenes at the grocery store or anywhere else since making dramatic scenes is something that one as adult should not do either. We teach social values that is to exist at ”The Social Playground” in life. 

As an adult you continue to learn while interacting in ”The Social Playground” of life, and the whole point is to improve your skills, your Emotional Intelligence. Especially in tough times, like during a Pandemic this is very useful to yourself and everyone that you interact with. 

Maturity is a similar or a more outdated expression of Emotional Intelligence but has not the same wide meaning. Maturity is more to be a role model and to be more solid and strong, standing on your own two feet. While Emotional intelligence is something that others more benefits from since there is a large part of interaction with others involved here to our opinion. 

Immature or low Emotional Intelligence tend to blame others for their feelings and decide to victimize themselves.

We are targeting both Women & Men with our different coaching options. Emotional Intelligence is about feelings, how to cope with problems and what you see as a solution to the problems, what decisions will you make when you are faced with challenges, fear or danger.  

Perhaps you are not so used to talk about feelings or worries because you think you are not allowed to because you have to be strong to be a man. That is BS. We really want to give you a good advise to talk about your feelings, you can learn how to do it. Cry is also very good, it will ease the tension and you will feel more relaxed. Worries is normal these days, the important thing is what you do about it. 

Emotional Intelligence, EQ, is very exciting. How we interact with other people involves how we manage our own feelings. It involves our values, our boundaries and is very much based on our Self Esteem how we treat other people. If you want to boost your self esteem and become better at talking about your feelings and manage your feelings there is much to choose from within our different coaching options – link in menu – Welcome! 

Problem Solving Technique

Problem solving technique – get some advise right here – We also have a more in depth strategy within our different both coaching & business education options. Check that out – links in menu or contact us for more information at info@attitudepromotion.com 

How do you view or cope with problems? 

If you view problems as challenges it will be much easier.

If you feel it is a challenge you can turn it into a competition with yourself.

Write down problems you face and write down your worries, It is a difference, right

Sort out the clutter, write down problems on one page and worries on another page.

And you will get an overview that the problems & the worries is not the same thing

& How to view problems 

Problems is a part of life. 

To sort out the clutter is very important to see what problems can you solve now!
It’s really important. 

To prioritize your problems is not a bad idea. Because when you solve problems you will boost your self confidence enormously. It will build character and you will become stronger

Sort problems into categories, problems you can solve now or short term and problems that can be solved in the long run.

Divide the problems into what is possible and what is not possible. And what can you do to ease the pressure upon you that the problems cause. 

Problems cause stress but if we try to avoid problems is not always a solution. We all face problems because it’s a part of life. And when you deal with problems and solve them it will boost your self confidence, build character and it will make you stronger. 

Solve or handle problems, you can view problems from different perspectives. That is easier to do if you write them down and brain storm what you can do about them. 

To deal with problems is an expression. That means that you can solve problems and you can get really skilled at solving problems, you can. 

Fool yourself as Motivation

How many times have you fooled yourself?
Quite many times, right. So why not fool yourself for doing good things? 

That is a way to motivate yourself actually. 
How about getting out of a comfort zone that doesn’t really serve you anyway, on the contrary perhaps. 

That is a very common ”Self Made Trap” – an imagined safe zone.
It’s a Challenge to get out of your traps. It requires courage and it gives you self confidence, you will cultivate the skill along the way once you start.

Transform and develop into what you want to accomplish in life, your imagination is the limit. 

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Lift other people up

We can give self confidence to others but they have to do the work to keep it 🌺

We give this gift by believing in others and to support them. 

This is an important obligation as a Leader even privately but also very important if you run projects, a business and are responsible for employees. 

Lift people up and people will prosper within your care.

Accept no and do No downplaying within your territory – that ought to be outdated long time ago.

Study In depth  Leadership – pre-recorded education at Master Degree Level – link through the menu – Business Educations – and save up to 5 years of college study within this topic

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7 things How to get in charge of your feelings

⭐ snooze people for 30 days who contribute with stress & anxiety in your life

⭐ after the 30 days decide if they are worthy of another chance to be in your life – if not block them out of your life online & IRL – don’t tell why if it only will take more energy from you – if they ask why say you need a break and have other things to put down your energy on and walk away or log out and unfriend them IRL too – don’t take calls or DM’s either – don’t get into discussions

⭐ make sure to cultivate the habit of sleeping at least 7 hours each night, preferably 8

⭐ eat healthier food, more fruits and vegetables, less sugar and unhealthy fat, drink more water and herbal tea

⭐ journal your feelings if you feel the urge to act on affect – write off those feelings into your journal – cry if you need to cry it will help you

⭐ read your journaling in the evening and identify where there is repetition of thoughts or opinions and mark them as main topics – pick three of them as main topics to dig deeper into to get to the root of these topics that rule your world and solve it or manage it strategically

⭐ in the morning read something uplifting – and create words of affirmation to yourself – words you say to yourself that you appreciate about yourself – who you are and who you want to be & be that person from now on

You’re welcome! – more in our different Online Coaching Sessions – link in menu


How & When do you Reward yourself?

We love Chocolate and it actually makes us happy – both literally and emotionally. Chocolate contains Dopamine – our brain’s reward and pleasure centers. Press the link below and check out the amazing high quality chocolate we really recommend. 

It is an important question How & When you Reward yourself. It is crucial when it comes to reaching goals in life & is closely connected to Motivation. If you just give yourself rewards or use them as comfort you will lose the whole point of Motivation. You have to set boundaries with yourself to learn the power of Motivation. When you reach goals along the way, both short term and long term goals it is important to celebrate and reward yourself and anyone involved and your close ones too. It will give much joy and you will see that it was worth the struggle.


If you just get gifts now and then for no effort what so ever you will actually get really spoiled and not so grateful either. Set up reasonable rewards for reasonable input of effort and also make boundaries and rules round this and it will work really good as Motivation for you. Chocolate also contains Dopamine our brain’s reward and pleasure system. We are much about health and Chocolate is even included into our diet we have into our Health coaching options – link in menu.

Press the picture and reward yourself with some chocolate and set up some goals to go reach to get the chocolate!

Self Confidence vs Humility

Being humble is a personality trait and being Humble means to lower one self in comparison with others. What does this really mean? 

Humility is how we interact with others

Respect and consideration for other people is included in our behavior towards other people. To be considerate as a person is included in being a humble person. We take into consideration other peoples feelings when we make decisions. It does not mean that we ask other people for approval or have other people dictate to us what to do. It means that we cultivate values and take these values into consideration as a variable into our decision making process. We reflect upon how our decisions will affect other people. This is also why we don’t talk bad or gossip because we don’t want to harm another persons feelings or reputation. To show consideration for other peoples feelings is to show respect, and to show respect will give you respect. 

A humble person does not belittle other people as if they are unimportant. Attention is included in how we treat other people. Our body language is said to be about 85% of our communication and immediately exposes our values towards other people. The silent treatment is a sanction to undesired behavior from someone, you don’t say anything but the message usually goes through. Everyones behavior effect other people and when we realize this we can get better results in every area of our lives. 

Not to gossip is also a question of self preservation since it backfires the one who talk about other people as not trustworthy. This gets us into the other perspective, how a person view him or herself because this has a vital part of being a humble person

We know of the expression, that we have to love ourselves to be able to love someone else. Self love is to take care of one self, healthy habits in every aspect of our lives, science say that we become like the 5 closest people we associate with. We are influenced by what we put down our time on. This is pure logic. We also know that we get influenced by toxic relationships and have to get out of such relationships to stay healthy and to actually keep our self love in good shape. 

Self esteem is included in self love and is a subconscious feeling about ourselves. How we treat ourselves, what we say to ourselves and how we guard ourselves from outer danger. Self preservation is a foundation for our self esteem. It is also about setting boundaries what we accept as accepted behavior towards us. Unhealthy codependency is common within relationships with different addictions. We need to safe guard ourselves when we are taken advantage of or being ”belittled” .  

We have our pre-recorded product about self esteem through the menu to create habits that will build and safe guard your self esteem. Our mail focus is to help you to develop good habits to build a strong self esteem and a balanced self confidence. 

Self Confidence is a topic that we dig really deep into our Facebook group product – I can do it – Mindset masterclass – link through the menu. 

Self Confidence means that we trust that we will figure things out a long the way, we don’t know everything but have the possibility to learn a long the way. It is also a kind of curiosity towards new insights. We trust the process of learning and have an open and learning mindset. 

Self confidence is how we view ourselves and not in comparison with others. Low self confidence can be that we don’t think we have what it takes but others may have it. This is not to be confused with being a humble person. A humble person knows that other people also have possibilities to learn and reach goals in life as he or she has and does not view it as a competition between other people. A humble person is happy for other peoples success and does not get envious or show hatred towards someone else because of their success. A humble person does not feel more important or proud of being better than other people. On the contrary a humble person teach or share insights with other people what they know and is not envious about knowledge or stingy about it. 

Self confidence is about believing in one selfs abilities to reach goals in life and that we have what it takes to get there so to speak. Of course we need support from others and we need to adapt to changed circumstances and we know we can figure things out along the way. 

Self confidence is an attitude towards ourselves and to express humility is an attitude of grace towards other people.

Comfort zone have never gotten anyone anywhere

Habits will impact your Mindset – so choose them wisely 
We help you to Customize Good habits and to kick out the Bad habits. 
Bad habits is habits that interfere with your goals. 

We have so much within us that with the right motivation will help you
to get rid of different blocks you have and to see your potential and
work towards it daily. 

We have the structure for it. 

Comfort zone have never gotten anyone anywhere. 
A comfort zone is often an imagined comfort zone.
We will guide you out of it. 

Customize Good habits in our different Facebook Groups 
or in our pre-recorded product – How to get a winner’s Mindset – so you don’t give up

or 1:1 Coaching Online – links through the menu
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Get your feet into your Business Cash Flow

– Don’t hesitate with or limit private projects just because you don’t know how to run a Business – you will grow into it – we will guide you both in our Facebook groups & in our pre-recorded CEO/Managing Director Education

– It’s important to get your feet into the cash flow at once within your Business – you will grow with it and won’t panic when it adds up to millions

– Our Business Structure makes room for more of your Ideas & Projects – we guide you how to

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Our Method

Low on battery?
Get that fixed In depth in the – Healthier Lifestyle – option pre-recorded – choose from Online Coaching options or the Facebook Group – Health, Weight & Beauty comes with Health

Low Self Esteem?
Then we have the pre-recorded option – How to get a Winner’s Mindset – so you don’t give up – NOT a Facebook Group – choose from Online Coaching options. Here you get to advise about good habits to boost your Emotional Intelligence and make you stronger –
It’s about Self Esteem – about setting boundaries in life & how to love & respect yourself & also a deep dive into Self Confidence since YOU need YOU to get where you want to go in Life

Feeling bored?
Join Our Facebook groups and get that solved
* I can do it – Mindset Masterclass
* Jag Kan! – Mindset Masterclass (Swedish)

Our Method – join the Club
* We help you to say no to Distractions
* Kick out Bad Habits
* Create Good Habits
* Aquire & Safe Guard your Self Confidence
* Safe Guard your Self Esteem
* Get in Charge
* Achieve your Goals & put more ideas into Reality
* Get some structure

Our Health options will help you to:
* Customize healthy habits
* Navigate through your feelings more in depth

I can do it! – Mindset Masterclass
* Aquire & Safe Guard Self Confidence
* Build your personal Brand
* & More about Mindset

We have these Health & Mindset options since YOU need YOU to reach your goals in life! Links in the menu – Online Coaching – Welcome!